Friday 30 December 2022

January 2023 - Presence

Happy New Year, wishing you a healthy and enjoyable time ahead,


Reflections: Presence - Looking forward to 2023
"Weaving Shadow and Light" Programme begins this month

New Year Special: Three Card Listening for £10
Book news "Your Compass Rose Speaks - Rediscover Your Inner Wisdom"

Dare to Blossom Monthly Circles on Zoom 
One to one coaching



Reflections: Presence - Looking forward to 2023

At first, my mind couldn't decide on a theme for 'reflection' this month, so I decided to simply be in a sense of anticipation. I cannot know, none of us can, what the year ahead will bring. 

I can make plans and hope that they will become reality. And they may well change through my choice or through circumstances outside my control. My 'word of the year' for 2023 is 'Presence'.  How does 'presence' relate to 'being present'? I am not sure just now, what is your response to the question?


For me the most useful way I can step into the new year is by setting an intention to be present. To be in the moment as much as possible. Noticing what is - what is around me; what I am feeling; how others are behaving. What is present in my environment.

As you may know, one of my great joys is walking here in Cornwall, along the lanes, on the beaches, out on the cliff paths. Although in some ways my habit of taking photos to share can be a distraction, in other ways it adds to my ability to stop, to pause, to notice. And that can apply just as much when I am at home - what do I see around me? What feelings are present for me right now? These might be physical sensations: hot, cold, stiff, sore. Or emotions: happy sad, discontented, joyful.

What do I see around me? I like to keep little treasures on my desk. Often items from nature: feathers, pebbles, shells. And items I have bought for myself or been gifted by others.



This photo shows a favourite candle stand (a treasured gift), with the remains of a candle I bought for myself as the colours matched so beautifully (although you can't see this in the lighted candle), safely contained in a little holder I found in a charity shop. Around the four sides are a few of my collection of feathers: from crow, pheasant, fulmar, and buzzard.

Rather than offering you specific questions this time, I will leave you with these brief thoughts. And simply wish you the joy of tiny treasures and much happiness along the way as you step into 2023.

 

 "Weaving Shadow and Light" Programme begins this month

The first six-week turn around the Compass Rose, will be "Weaving Shadow and Light" .There are two taster circles, on Wednesday 4th January and Wednesday 11th, both at 11.00 am UK time. Simply reply to this email to request the Zoom link for one or both events if you would like to join us.

The overarching theme of "Weaving Shadow and Light" is about appreciating all those parts of ourselves, and maybe especially the ones we judge as 'not good enough', 'bad', 'unacceptable' - we can offer ourselves any number of negative and harsh responses. In nature all the contrasts are a part of the whole: night and day; summer and winter; hot and cold.




The seeds that will be starting to germinate in January when we embark on this programme could not do so without the soft darkness of the earth to nurture and protect them until the roots reach downwards and the tender green shoots are ready to emerge into the light.

The full information, programme and booking details are
on the website here . The fee for the six weeks is £144, you can choose to pay via PayPal or bank transfer. I can arrange for you to do that in two instalments if that helps you. (And don't forget that if you have participated in previous programmes I offer you a discount, just contact me to claim that if you would like to.)

After the two taster sessions, we begin on the weekend of 14th/15th January when I will invite you into the private Facebook group, with our first of the six weekly Zoom gatherings at 11.00 am on Wednesday 18th. If that time and day does not work for you - but you are drawn to joining us -
please do contact me to discuss as there is often some flexibility within the group to gather at a different time.


New Year Special: Three Card Listening for £10

Once again I am offering a New Year Special, a discount on the usual price of a 'Three Card Listening', for yourself or as a gift - £10 only.

What is a 'Listening'? Well - I draw three Dare to Blossom Rediscovery Cards for you. They are called Rediscovery Cards as they are a way for you to rediscover your own inner wisdom.

Therefore I do not feel it is for me to 'read' them for you, not to tell you anything. I simply tune in to the whispers of your inner wisdom and convey what I hear - for you to accept or reject, however feels right for you.




Here are the most recent three cards I drew for myself, before Christmas. I will be creating a Listening for myself as part of my own stepping into the new year reflections.

The full details are
on this link or simply contact me to book. The special price ends on Friday 13th January - my lucky date.
 

Book news: "Your Compass Rose Speaks - Rediscover Your Inner Wisdom"

The formatting of the draft for print is proceeding well, I hope to have a firm publication date to share with you soon. Thank you so much to all of you who are keen to buy your copy, I know it will be a beautiful book and you will feel the wait to make it so has been worthwhile. Thank you for your patience, in my experience these things simply take the time they take.





Dare to Blossom Monthly Circles on Zoom - a choice of day and time

The drop-in circles are held twice each month. The first of 2023 is on Saturday 14th January at 11.00 am UK time, with the Monday evening Circle on 30th January at 7.30 pm.





You can find the events on Facebook,  or simply reply to this email and ask me for the Zoom link. It is always pleasure to welcome those of you who prefer not to connect via social media, all you need to join us is the Zoom link that I send to you in advance of the time.

Payment is by donation, depending on your circumstances. People offer from zero to £60. I host the circles with no expectation, simply deep gratitude for your presence. 

The full schedule of dates for 2023 is on the website.


One to One Coaching

For many people, the deeper connection of one to one sessions is perfect for them once in a while, either for a short block of six, or an on-going arrangement as and when required.

Either way, I would love to have a Zoom chat with you if you would like to explore the option of one to one coaching with me. There is no pressure, simply an opportunity to find out what would be useful for you, and if my approach would be good for you. 




If you click on the 'Book Now' Passionflower, it will take you straight to my calendar to book a twenty minute complimentary call. If you prefer, to read more about the Rediscovery Coaching process click hereCurrent pricing is £45 for thirty minutes and £90 for a one hour session.

“I have found my sessions with Mary to be a good balance of ideas for the practical things I can do, and the bigger picture reminder of what I want to achieve. This has helped clarify the direction  I want to take and also sparked ideas of how to get there. Mary helps as a reminder to stay true to my experiences and has allowed me to be comfortable with who I am and having balance in life and my work.” 

You can read more testimonials here on my website


I send wishes for health and happiness for you and all you love.

Thank you for joining me here this month, any thoughts, feedback, or questions are always welcome.